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The spankings were usually carried out just beyond the view of other students, usually in a utility closet. All the same, the punishments were never out of earshot. For a spanking to have been done completely in private would have eliminated the greatest fraction of its punishing effect. You see, the pain inflicted was trivial compared to the humiliation, which set an example to other students: "Behave yourselves or yee too shall be made to bend over and be spanked!"
Teachers all had their favourite spanking implements. My fourth grade math teacher, Mr. Desper, had a paddle named "Alfonso" and it supposedly had holes drilled in it to increase its rump-swatting sting. My friend Nathan VanHooser met Alfonso's wrath one day after a little horseplay in class. In that particular case, the humiliation was not done in private at all; it was done at the sliding divider between two class rooms.
The children who were spanked were not usually the worst behaved ones. I, for example, was notoriously poorly behaved, but I always managed to avoid the ultimate sanction. Children who were spanked were often chosen by a teacher who happened to be in a bad mood (after the child failed to sense this and proceded to make what often amounted to a relatively minor infraction). There may have also been psycho-sexual reasons for why certain children were chosen for paddlings and others were not.
The spanking of children in public schools struck me at the time (and continues to
strike me) as exotic in almost a compelling way. I had attended school in the DC
suburbs and the thought of spanking a child there was indeed a very alien concept.
But in Virginia, the teachers could spank. And they did. Pop! Pop! Pop!
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Parenting Tips on Spanking-Goofy fundamentalists have all the answers. Here they provide advice on when and how hard to wield the rod that must not be spared.
Corporal Punishment of Children-An overview of spanking related to legal and psychological issues.
The Sexual Dangers of Spanking Children-A compelling case is made here that spanking is a form of sexual trespass and a tradition-sanctioned form of pedophilic rape.
Laura's Spanking Corner-On the other hand, you may have fond memories of those spankings you've deserved and received. Perhaps erotic spanking stories are more along the line of what you want. These are pretty good.